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Great Kids, Great Parents Blog
By Dr. Paul Holinger


Good News!
The 36th country in the world
has banned physical
punishment of children
in all settings. The country?
The former Yugoslav
Republic of Macedonia.

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Dr. Paul Understanding infant and child development is so important and can be so helpful in improving our parenting. We can always learn ways to enhance our relationships with our children.

There are geniuses in this field who deserve to be household names: August Aichhorn, John Bowlby, Anna Freud, Sigmund Freud, Hermine Hug-Hellmuth,
Melanie Klein, Margaret Mahler, Rene Spitz, Daniel Stern, Silvan Tomkins,
Donald Winnicott. Much of the mission of this website is to bring the work of these great men and women into the spotlight and learn all we can from them.
I see my job as helping transition the work of these brilliant psychological minds into the public arena.

Within this site I have written and gathered many interesting articles and
recommended readings to help answer questions for parents just like you.
I address topics including:

My goal is to help develop great kids and great parents. I hope to do this by discussing information about infancy and childhood -- and especially about the feelings of infants and children. Why the focus on feelings? Because feelings lead to behaviors -- our actions or inaction stem from our feelings.

I invite you to use and explore this site to gain a better understanding of your children and how to better communicate and interact with them.

Warmest wishes,
Paul C. Holinger, M.D.


What Babies Say Before They Can Talk

In his widely acclaimed book, Dr. Holinger provides a great resource for parents that includes a wealth of information and an indispensable foundation for understanding babies' feelings and behavior.

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The Three Keys to Dealing
with Feelings

In infancy, there are various responses to stimuli, which later become our feelings and then our more complex emotional life. The question is: How do we use this information? That is, can understanding the embryology of feelings help us with infant and child development?

It turns out that understanding feelings can help us not only with infants and toddlers, but with adolescents and adults as well.


  Anna Freud

Anna FreudAnna Freud was the sixth and youngest child of Sigmund Freud and Martha Bernays. She was born in Vienna, began her career as a teacher, and ultimately was essential in creating the field of child psychoanalysis. She emphasized issues of infant and child development and attachment, and she established treatment centers for children during World War II. Among her best known works are The Ego and the Mechanisms of Defense (1936) and Normality and Pathology in Childhood: Assessments of Development (1965).
Physical punishment does not help,
it makes things worse, and there are much better alternatives.
See the following international organizations
for more information.

endhittingusa.org >
endcorporatlpunishment.org >